I find it odd that in the last 2 cities I’ve lived in, and one of them having over 6 million people, that somehow I was one of a tiny handful of Independent dommes. (Dominatrix/femdomme/pro domme/domina and NOT a twitter findomme scamdomme Dommebot) There was a commercial dungeon, but just 1, with a small number of dommes. However, I can fu**ing go on X and not see a trillion women saying “Us dommes need more engagement so like omg here’s a good one, ok so like: “How tall are you? And what was your biggest send yet?” And then like 1,000 replies from profiles claiming they are “dommes”. Well all of these “mistresses” and “goddesses” have to stay relevant, of course, but not on topic, because they all respond with their cash tags and say things like “I need my first pay pig for rent and shopping. And I have a throne wish list.” So all of that engagement was really just the person making the post, hoping that one of the girls with a lot more followers will respond to her post so that maybe more finsubs will see it. Because the more “dommes” (lmao) on one post will surely draw in more “paypigs” (lmao). “So, like math or whatever right!” Well how does that math really work out though? So on X there are aaaall these dommes walking around. I mean they must be, right? If they say they are and we see their X profiles. So in Phoenix, a city of 6 million, why when I search for different kinks and fetishes (on the sites where you post as a sex worker) that for 90% of them I am the only independent domme that would come up. Now again in Tulsa, ok. Where are all these women they say they are “dommes.” Why is it so hard to find another one to do a session with me and one of my clients out here, and back there? Why don’t I see their professional advertisements? Why are some of the biggest ones not on fetlife? I feel like I should be bumping into a lot more of these “dommes”. Even just when my clients go to the ATM before a session with me. Shouldnt at least one of them run into one of those dommes at the ATM while she was draining one of her paypigs? Idk..I’m just bad at math, I guess..