I know It's the typical boring question that you've heard infinite times, but I noticed I have serious struggles with that. Really, how do you approach a Domme online?

For a reason or another, It rarely works. When you write them the first message It must not contain have any "hi, hello, goodmorning". Whether you do It or not, most of times you end up ghosted. If you are lucky enough to reach the next step, you may end up being ghosted or rejected because of being boring. If you try being more spicy or similars, you're just a kink dispenser. They won't show face even if they require you to do It (except fakes/scammers, this is common between real Dommes too).

Last time I've been in touch with a Domme It lasted 4 month. It felt like everything was perfect, she looked very excited and used to shower me with compliments. When we were gonna meet up in a month, she started ghosting me and then slowly disappeared with stupid excuses instead of being straightforward.

It's frustrating. It feels like nobody can really put effort in a relationship but at the same time they require efforts from the submissive. But I know It's not always like that, I've seen successfull dynamics.

So how can I find a good Domme for me? And how am I supposed to approach a Domme online? (Especially with the first message/presentazione for example)