Up until recently my sex life has been entirely vanilla and I'm brand new to this scene. I'm looking for a more wholesome form of femdom, something with a caring older woman, someone who prefers praise over degradation, where even in a sub position my input is valued, more of a mutual human relationship than being someone's slave/literal property. I'm not looking to literally be cared for like a helpless human being or do some sort of 3 year old age regression, I'm 24, take good care of myself, cook my own meals, own my own home, am financially independent etc. This is obviously a very specific niche and as I'm brand new, any advice, do's, don'ts, really any feedback is appreciated.

Also if there is some sort of activity I'd be more likely to meet individuals like this. I have an absolute laundry list of hobbies and am always happy to try learning something new. I will try almost anything once, there are no bad suggestions.

Cheers.