Hi all.

To elaborate on the title. My GF and I have been playing with Chastity recently and it's been amazing for both our sex life and our relationship as a whole.

However, with me being in chastity, PIV sex now means I have to be released and then re-locked each time and we're worried that releasing me kind of defeats the object of being in chastity in the first place. Maybe I should add that I'm not allowed to cum during our sex sessions, even though I am released from the cage. So that's not the issue, she simply doesn't want me out of the cage at all if possible.

The main problem being that PIV is my girlfriends favourite/best way to orgasm. She also doesn't like me giving her oral as she is paranoid about the bacteria etc. This has presented a bit of problem as it seems to be the most common situation you find when researching/viewing media about this dynamic. Locked guy licks his partner to countless orgasms while he remains locked and denied. I've tried reassuring her about her bacteria fears but she isn't into it and can't enjoy it. So now we have changed our tactics and are looking for different ways we can maintain the complete focus on her pleasure without having to unlock me regularly.

Obviously, everything is ultimately our decision and preference and there is no one right way to do this, so PIV is not a forbidden thing. But we're just wondering if anybody has ideas/things we can try that aren't oral or traditional PIV.

Any advice is greatly appreciated. We love this community, so thank you so much!