Hey! I'll jump right in here, my ehhh... mistress (aka fiancé) and I usally engage in a once a week session. Mistress collared me about a year ago, once the collar goes on she becomes mistress/daddy and I become her good boy. It is somthing I look forward to week round. I work an extremely high stress job but when the collar goes on become mistresses little slut and I forgot about everything. I'm a bit of a brat though which is where the problem lies as I keep dropping out of scenes (not sure what that is called).

When I'm feeling bratty, as I usally I am, my partner tries to put me in my place. Often however it falls flat.

The problem is, at least I think it is, that I'm very large, before I meet mistress I was a body builder. After being together for about of year I moved onto boxing, swimming, and running. I've trimmed down tons but im still 6"1, barrel chested, covered in tattoos and I generally look pissed of most of the time... well at least until mistress puts me in my place.

I want mistress to dominate me more, but she is not strong enough to over power me (which is what I really want), and even though we have full leather cuffs, spacer bars, ropes etc... if im feeling bratty I know I can easily over power the restraints and mistress. This, takes me out of the scene and I find it so frustrating. I want mistress to be able to bend me over and dominate the shit out of me I want to be helpless and used. But if I know I can easily get free I just start to feel like there is not point in even being dominated.

My question is how do we get around this, are there are other men whom enjoy this and have gotten around it with there significantly smaller partner? I want her to feel powerful and strong I want her to feel like she can use me how she likes.

Any tips are appreciated!!! Thank you