So I well been burned many times with dommes asking for well money and I have to well ask is it normal for dommes asking for money or is not right I have been told it is normal and I should and well I lost around 500 dollars in total I have to well ask is it qa good thing or no. I want to try having a true domme relationship with a domme but well I dont like having to pay money for it. Like I offered hey I can buy the toys on my own when I have my money so I can make sure it is sent to my adress properly. Also I have been ask to give them my bank account or to set up a bank account for them and I well just don't know at this point. I want to have a domme but well with this its pushing me away from bdsm in general wish I dont really like. I would really love to have some help with this question please.