So in the last 10 months my boyfriend has only had ruined orgasms, infrequently at that. Last month we agreed to make his chastity permanent. We have been focusing mainly on prostate orgasms for him with absolutely nothing on his cage. If he doesn’t orgasm for 3 months from pegging then I’ll use a vibrator on his cage.

Well last night marked 2 months since his last orgasm. He was leaking heavily from the pegging but wasn’t quite able to reach the end. After we cleaned up and were cuddling he asked me to unlock him. I told him that I thought we had made his denial permanent just last month. He said he knew but he couldn’t take it anymore with my teasing him constantly. I told him to beg me and it was honestly adorable.

I’ve never felt as powerful as I did last night with him begging me for something that I get essentially whenever I want.

After maybe 5 minutes of begging I told him that as cute as he was, I didn’t think that it was fair for me to unlock him after what we agreed on. I could tell he was frustrated so I gave him a kiss and told him that it’s better this way. Plus he’s the one who asked to only be allowed to cum in his cage. He’s just going to have to work harder to orgasm during pegging.

We chatted a bit more for the night so I’ll save you the dirty talk but the funniest part of all this? This morning he cooked me breakfast and apologized for asking to be unlocked last night and having put me in that position. I couldn’t help but smile.

We have a safe word in place for in case he ever changes his mind where he can get unlocked after 1 month of using the safe word but we both agreed that even if he ever does use it he will never be allowed inside me again except with a strap on. I think with knowing this he realizes there is no point to really being unlocked. Just temporary weakness that he needs me to moderate🥰

Thanks to everyone that helped us get to this point!

Edit: soooooo lots of concerned comments which is kinda my fault

I didn’t want to blab on and since I’ve already talked about it before didn’t think it was relevant

But anyway let me give you guys some more info about our relationship

1. He has access to his own key. It’s behind a plastic numbered lock so I will know if he accesses it but he is allowed to access it at any point if he wants.

2. We have 2 safeword systems, neither of which were implemented last night. The first one is for play, red/yellow. And the second one is for chastity.

3. Before we embarked on permanent chastity, we had multiple talks about it. We both discussed how we would go about it together and what safeties we should have in place. One of them being the chastity safe word and cool down period. We chose the 30 day cool down period together. During which he would still be locked in chastity but with absolutely no play. During this he would still have access to his own key.

4. The whole not being inside me again thing is a kink we both share. As I have said before, if we were to have a serious talk in the future where he told me that it’s not something he was comfortable with anymore and that he needed that level of intimacy and was no longer into the kinks he is currently into... then of course we would re-evaluate from there.

5. Maybe this wasn’t clear but he was asking me to unlock him in order to have a full orgasm which he hasn’t had in almost a year. One of our agreements for chastity was that he was only allowed to have ruined orgasms going forward. This was something he specifically requested.

I understand a lot of this stuff wasn’t clear at all from the post but I just wanted to clarify that I’m not forcing anything on him. We are in this together and I understand my responsibilities to him.

More than happy to clarify anything else for those still concerned.