Hello Everyone!!

I have been in search of finding the right domme for myself, however, I have come across a lot of people who disguise themselves as domme or just in it for financial gains. Which leads to my biggest question as to why is it so difficult to find the right person or to better clear it up, to actually find a real domme/mommy? With sites like Fetlife, getdare, and kinktalk all there as well, posting ads or even trying to respond to them just quickly results in either signing up for a third-party website or immediately demanding pictures.

What would be the best place to find someone or even yet look for someone? I have looked through different subreddits as well and the thought of posting on reddit brings back bad memories and experiences when I previously posted on above websites. So what should I do next? I am open to listening to any advice out there! :)

Thank you all for taking the time to read my post!