Any other Msubs attracted to physically imposing woman? Tall, curvy and strong a type that appeals to you? I don't believe in having a singular type of person you're attracted to since everyone and every trait has it's own subjective charm, petitedommes also make the world go around of course. Yet I find the charm of taller woman who can potentially physically overpower me a unique beauty. Only thing that kinda sucks for me and men like me I assume is that in general this is considerd kinda weird. Men in tradtitional gender roles are supossed to be the physically stronger protectors while some woman claim to feel more feminine with stronger/taller men. I don't particularly care for this notion and I doubt you do too my dear reader, since being into BDSM (hopefully) makes one embrace tolerance and reject a need for unsubstansiated appeals to conformity.

Yet the truth about being into kink is that solely kink dating isn't gonna cut it for most of us. You live life, that one girl/boy in your college class or co-worker is looking hella cute and you fall in love and date vanilla. Then when the time is right you open up about your desires and then you'll see if they'll match or not. If so great and if not you either have to bite the bullet and move on or accept that the person you love is worth making certain sacrifices for.

Thing is I've had troubles having my femdom desires weirding out tall woman I've been talking to/dating vanilla. Partly because of the earlier comments about tradtional gender roles but also because them having the bodies of a dream domme doesn't have to make them a domme, it would be like saying all tall guys are doms which they aren't. I don't mean any harm by it but I am fetishizing a certain characteristic of their bodies in a way which they don't want to/can't meet, which is fine but just unforunate on both sides!

Also what doesn't really help is that I don't really fit the ideal of a role reversal UwU short cute soft boy sub. I might be short (5'9) but I'm masculine and built like a truck, so my cute personality doens't match my appearance. I'm really wondering and reaching out to the subs with taller dommes out there and dommes with shorter subs out there how your dynamics and experiences have been. Thanks for reading and I hope we can share some experiences!