I've always been told that I need to appreciate being single before getting into a relationship. This is something I've always struggled with since being in a committed, loving relationship always looks amazing (especially a femdom one).

However, I do worry that I might be letting the unique connection that femdom gives me take up too much of my thoughts. I've had casual and more serious relationships and always felt happy, but now that I've been single for a while I'm starting to feel frustrated and nostalgic.

Have you ever let being in a relationship eclipse other aspects of your life? How do you balance your desire to take care of your domme/sub with your romantic relationship?