Sooo I (f19) was talking to my bf(m25) today and he expressed that he would like me to dehumanize him more than I I currently do and we are both very into it. But sometimes I feel like I’m not doing it right? If that makes sense like I know there is no right way. But I’m hoping I could get some ideas on the subject along with a few more with degradation. We both enjoy it a lot but I worry about being too mean? If that makes sense. And he knows this and he’s agreed to tell me if he stops liking it.

But I would like a few more ideas on how to degrade/dehumanize and kinda get in the mindset to be able to do it. Is there like a mindset yall get in or such? How can I get better about it?

Edit: I realized I didn’t make it really clear but he has given me some ideas in general and what he would like me to say im just looking a bit on a more general aspect