Hey guys,

For the longest time I have been into femdom porn, jerking off to different genre, spanking, caning, foot fetish etc.. probably close to 8 years now.

Recently I had the fortune of meeting a few women.

But when I am having sex, I could only get hard for like 1-2 minutes. During the time, I can’t “enjoy” the moment naturally, when I see boobs and pussy, it does not get me hard.

When I am receiving blow job or handjob, I have to imagine myself in a femdom scenario for me to even get hard and finish off.

I know there are a couple of similar posts, and some advice have been to quit porn, or rewire your brain.

Honestly, I haven’t tried that yet, but I doubt it will help. Can I rewire my brain to like something else? Since the start I have already been attracted to femdom.

Hopefully the community can provide me some form of advice.