Heyoo!~
Sorry if this question was asked already, I quickly searched for it but only found the exact opposite of what I experienced.

I like talking to kinky people in general, but always they are too far away for me to consider to have a more intimate relationship with them, but I noticed a trend (this is all anecdotal btw):
Here's the thing I've noticed with conversations: when I talk to submissives, the dialogue flows naturally, and it feels like a balanced effort.
But when I talk to domminants, even if they DM me first, they rarely ask me any question, or follow through with the conversation. It often feels like I’m pulling teeth just to keep it alive, and once I stop asking, it fizzles out.
Why is that? Are they just too swamped with attention to engage? And if so, why even DM me?

PS: This happens when I talk with male dominants too, but less so. Usually they peruse the conversation until they realize I have no interest in them, with some notable exceptions, I had some great MaleDom friends.