Hi everyone,

I’ve noticed that many Dommes and online communities are increasingly asking for age/ID verification, which I understand is meant to ensure safety and authenticity. However, I find myself feeling uneasy about sending sensitive documents like my driver's license or passport. (Even though bluring some content)

While I realize I might be overly cautious, I’m concerned about potential scams or leaks of my personal information. When I ask about data storage or retention policies, I often feel dismissed or labeled as a time-waster.

I’m trying to navigate this space, but it’s challenging since I don’t know these individuals personally. I’d love to hear from others in the community—have you had any positive or negative experiences with this verification process? Any advice on how to overcome my fears or reassure those requesting verification would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks for your insights!