Whenever I speak to someone new who has expressed a wish to worship feet I always ask that exact question - are these feet that you’re enjoying imagining clean or dirty?

I do that for two reasons, firstly although I adore things happening to my feet, I have very high standards for myself and would only let someone anywhere near any part of me if I was assured it was perfectly clean and groomed, it’s just part of my persona. If people say it doesn’t matter I say it matters to me.

Secondly I find it is a really good summarising question to open the door to understanding someone’s wider kinks and assessing compatibility. Personally I’m not into humiliation and degradation and would struggle to play that role convincingly or with any joy. I’ve had people ask me to “force” them to do xyz to me after I’ve been to the gym or am generally dirty, or to be exposed to my bodily functions. Personally speaking I find that equally degrading to me and feel uncomfortable with it. So if someone says their dream feet are dirty / smelly then I know we won’t be a cohesive match and the Venn diagram has little overlap

Plus admiration and compliments are part of my thing and that includes appreciation of my perfect pedicure