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Would it be considered a mistake to reject someone based on interactions you had with them a long time ago?
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I know everybody has the capacity for growth, and something someone did as a teenager shouldn't be held against them. But a guy and his current girlfriend approached me after a tour of a dungeon and asked if I would be interested in domming for a couple. Normally I'd be ecstatic since I've been looking for a sub for forever and domming a couple is something I've always thought about.

However...I don't know if he just doesn't remember me or what, but this guy and his friends in high school used to pick on me and my sister a lot. Stuff like following us home yelling at us, or coming up behind us and pushing us over.

That being said, he doesn't at all resemble the same guy he was before. He's obviously done a lot of growing up and has even gotten into a romantic relationship with someone who seems nice enough.

I suppose what I'm asking is, would I regret not taking a potentially golden opportunity when it presents itself due to stuff someone did as a teenager?

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