Hello there 👋

Here is another post of someone who is not finding a dom. I do not want to blame anyone for that, but would love to hear and learn something from your side. If you feel you are getting spammed with these kind of posts, just let me know and I will delete it.

So, I do both reply to personals and post own ads. I seriously read others personals and only reply if I see a match. That is why I can invest much more time into my messages. Once I really spent an hour on one as it was a 100 % match (still no reaction lol). I think my texts are well written, but how can I prove that to you.

What is really annoying is when you get a response it always feels suspiciously. It feels like most are scammers or professionals. Of course they do not mention their financial interests at the beginning so a lot of time is wasted. To save that time I started saying things like „what are you looking for“, „do you charge“ etc. which may be offensive to normal doms and perhaps I lost some matches. What do you think, how to approach that topic?

When it comes to my own ads, well they are still online so please feel free to check one. Of course I have only been contacted by scammers so far. Let me end here, before it is reading as a personal ad lol

Thanks