I may be wrong and i know that poly may or maybe not be the normal thing and that could be possibly lots of dommes are monogamous. But could it be that with so many male subs and so few female dominate that she might own more then one and that she might look for submissives who are consented to an EnM relationship or partners with her?

I personally seeked a ENM relationship but i recently ran into a nice vanilla guy but i feel he thinks I’m being fetished by having more then one guy even if the other two I’m talking are already “slaves” And agreed to dynamic and relationship style. Help me to understand this. What am i missing? Am i doing something wrong?

I known for long time i always wanted an ENM poly with few male partners under me is this possible? Are men too jealous to be more then one under a Domme? I love advice and thoughts on this.