Ventingg is all! I’ve been looking for a live in sub and of course have gotten many messages. Some I can tell are not gonna go anywhere right away. Some take a little more time and either I determine it’s not going anywhere or they just disappear. And I have had a few that seemed promising enough to meet with in person, to get more of a vibe check and have an in depth convo, which means we had chatted through messages for a few days. If it’s gone a few days of me chatting with you that means things are going well and they’re “saying the right things” well out of those few that I’ve had the past couple weeks instead of a convo or something they just disappear. Stop replying. Or delete the convo. There’s one thing if during convo or questions maybe you change your mind , fine USE YOUR WORDS! But another thing is never having a serious intention at all and simply wasting my time. My time and emotions aren’t a toy.

Ok that’s all. FRUSTRATED! Everyone who doesn’t suck have a great day lol.