In my search for a serious romantic connection with the D/s flavour, I've been burnt out, discouraged, hurt, angry, sad, etc

However, nowadays I feel hopeful and patient. Sure it might take a long time to find that special person but it would be much more special when I do.

Recently I tried dating vanilla again in real life. It solidified for me that I won't be able to have a fulfilling relationship in a traditional vanilla setting. This made me even more dedicated to finding my special sub.

I see many posts of people getting really frustrated which is understandable. Too many horndogs, scammers, etc

To all of you seeking some genuine and meaningful connection, I hear you. We are all in this together. And I wish you find the one you're looking for. Keep the hope alive :)