I’m quite inexperienced as a Domme, I just had one sub so far. I know communication is key in such relationships and I’m not quite sure what questions I should ask my sub to check-in. I think because I’m still learning about me and my dominant side, these questions don’t come naturally.

That’s why I wanted to ask you, what general questions you use (domme) or what questions you receive (sub) after sessions or during aftercare. My main goal is to know if it was alright, what was "bad" and where I can improve. These are questions I use but I wanna go deeper into it.

I’m still not quite sure how to handle aftercare, maybe that’s why I’m struggling here.

I am thankful for your input and help! I’m also glad if you can link me some older threads regarding this problem. If you have any questions, I’m glad to reply to you! ♥