Hey

I'm very interested in pursuing a female led relationship (FLR), and would love to hear from any women who are either currently in one themselves or are also interested in this type of relationship. I have lots of questions I'd love to ask and I really want the perspective of the female in this dynamic as there is a lot of male focused content out there which seems quite unrealistic. This is to get a better understanding of how I might fulfil and please my partner, any tips and any issues to be aware of. Discussions with women seeking this dynamic and having my ideas criticised will only help to improve my efforts!

About me: I'm a 30yr old guy, single working professional who's tall and slim, love to keep active and fit, travel to new and exciting places. I love live music and vintage/antique markets.

You: What does your current or ideal FLR look like? Are there any non-negotiables? Who does what and who takes on which responsibilities?

I have an idea of how I envision things would be. I feel good communication from the outset and laying down rules and boundaries would enable this dynamic to flourish and be seemless. Some of these are:

• The male takes on the responsibilities traditionally done by females in the past such as, cleaning, cooking and caring.
• Debating and discussing important life decisions is encouraged but ultimately the female has the last word.
• The male has a healthy social life but must get permission from his wife before going out.
• Male masturbation is forbidden and the woman has full control of their sex life.
• Routines are established such as, coffee and breakfast prepared each morning and regular massages and pampering on certain days or times.

What are some of your frameworks and rules?

Please respond with a little intro about you. Nothing long, just ASL and maybe any experiences you have.

Looking forward to discussing this further!

Thanks