I’m a switch with a dom lean and I’m still relatively new to the femdom space. I’ve been talking with someone for a couple months but we’ve yet to meet up due to us being on trips that have overlapped. He’s really lovely and also a switch like myself but has a very submissive lean. The issue is this, he has a partner, which is quite normal in this space for people to be in relationships whilst having a dom/sub, but the problem is he’s never actually told me he’s in a relationship. He’s referred to ‘my ex/previous relationship’, but has never mentioned them in a current position. I know of the partner through tagged social media posts, names in bio ect.

I really want to start exploring the d/s space with him as we are very sexually compatible, but I’m worried about this lack of communication coming between us, as it’s something he had never told me but I don’t know if he just assumes that I’m aware and am okay with it.