The subs I encounter lately are mostly interested in just being asked questions with no interest from their side.

I asked my vanilla friends who are on dating apps and it's the same shit. There must be something in the water these days lol

When I ask questions I'm genuinely interested (I'm not good at faking an interest at all). I even went ahead and asked 'do you have any questions for me?' or 'what is it about me that you like?' and received the most atrocious answers it was actually hilarious how bad it was. Obviously I don't claim to be the most interesting person but I engage with people both online and in person. Also I let them know if I'm not interested instead of doing the slow fade or ghosting, it just saves everyone time.

I recently started looking for subs both online and in person and this has been my observation.