So, I've finally done what felt impossible for so long. I've opened my kinky self up to a partner, and she's interested in exploring being in control.

...and now I'm terrified I'm going to fuck it up 😂😭

My natural tendency is to be a) constantly turned on, and b) pretty chatty about it, which is not her vibe at all. I've also been exploring kink for a long time, and she's relatively new to it. I'm fairly sure that if I share everything going on in my head it would be too much for her, and I'd scare her away, but at the same time I'd like to let her know how excited I am and how much it means to me. Does anyone have any practical suggestions on ways to navigate this? Thank you! ❤️

Edit: There's a lot of great advice here, thank you all!