Hello to the lovely members of the r/FemdomCommunity! Yesterday, after a few weeks of researching what people like to see and writing things up with that in mind, I finished the first draft of my personals ad! (Woo!!) I think it ain't too bad myself, buuuuuut I really want to make sure I do this right. So, I figured I'd ask all you wonderful people in the femdom community for further advice before I hit post. I have written a few specific questions below, but here is the first draft in full, if you would like to read it.

Below are my questions (in bold) pertaining to the draft, provided with enough context (not in bold) so you don't have to read the full ad. The first is a general question regarding what I cover in the draft, and the rest are specific questions about whether certain sections should be included at all or whether a certain part of a section should be taken out. Thank you in advance to those who even choose to read these questions!

• Aside from stating the kind of connection I'm looking for and listing SFW physical traits, SFW hobbies, SFW aspects of my personality, SFW stuff I'd enjoy doing with a partner, SFW traits I'm looking for in a partner and will be for a partner, 4 non negotiables, physical traits I'd be weak for but that aren't required at all, stating how I want to forget about any sexy stuff for a number of months so we can focus on building an emotional connection, how I feel about kids, alcohol, drug use, offering my kinklist, and finally, giving people a few things to do in their response to me to prove they read it, is there anything extra I should add? Does any of that stuff sound like something I should take out or rework? Is 1,534 words wayyy too much?
• I have a disclaimer stating that this account is intended more as a dating profile, and that I have other, older reddit accounts for viewing sfw and nsfw content, as well as a little bit about why I decided to make this whole new account. I'm not sure if this is a good idea, but I've read before that some people like to see an account with some history, and while this one does, it could have more, I guess? Mentioning the other two was my attempt at getting around that. Does that sound alright?
• Later, I wrote a section titled, "What I'm looking for in you, and also what I will be for you". I say that to you, the interested party reading this, I will be a partner, someone who is understanding, someone who is patient and that I am looking for you, the interested party reading this, to be the same. I elaborate on what I mean extensively, and additionally bring up how I'm considering pro dating Coach, Chantal Heide's 3 month no kissing rule as a way to focus on emotional connection and building intimacy before getting into anything sexual. I feel like the 3 month no-kissing rule could come off as too extreme, but I emphasize that I want to discuss the actual timeframe with the lovely ladies that might be interested in me so we can meet the goal of emotional intimacy in a way that works for both of us. Does that sound okay?
• I continue by talking about 4 bullet-pointed non-negotiables in a partner; Empathy, Honesty, Left-leaning political views, and that they'd want kids someday. I very strongly emphasize that I have no intentions of being a passive or absent father, that I want to be very active in taking care of the kids and am excited about the prospect of getting to do so with a partner someday. I feel anxious about bringing that up though, cause it feels so serious? It feels like a lot to ask from someone I haven't even met, but I also understand that I wouldn't want to waste anybody's time with someone who has different intentions. Any suggestions on how I could make that more... comfortable? Or am I overthinking it too much? Is it even humanly possible for someone who wrote a 1,524 word personals ad after weeks of research to overthink things?
• I bring in a section I saw from a dom's post on gentlefemdomr4r, (But I adapted the title because I don't want to make people feel bad about their bodies.) "Physical attributes you could have that will definitely make me weak but are definitely not required". Like I said, I don't want to make people feel inadequate based on their physical characteristics. I tried to frame it as, "if you can do this I'll be extra weak to you but no worries if you can't because I'm sure you'll find plenty of new ways to knock my socks off" but I can't help feeling like it comes off as shallow. Should I just scrap it?
• Should I mention the size of my penis, and whether I'm a shower or a grower??? I'm proud of it and all, but it does feel a bit wrong to bring it up for some reason. On the other hand, I think there's a part of me that feels like because it's in the sphere of kink I should at least say?

Those are all the questions I can think of, thank you in advance to anyone who spent time offering feedback! I really appreciate it, and I promise to thank all of your personally in the comments as well as pay it forward later down the line by making a post outlining what worked for me and what didn't. I want to make it easier for people to make great personals ads in the future! I'm excited to hear from you! <3 <3 <3