I remember having submissive feelings at a very young age but had no idea about any of that. It was only when I was in college and I met a woman that would play with me. In my mind we were dating, I thought we were boyfriend/girlfriend but of course she didn't think that. She was studying massage and would practice on me but insisted I had to be naked. Then she would tease me to get me hard and scold me for it. She wouldn't even have to touch it and it would be standing right up. I was naive and at the time I was smitten, but now I realize all my kinks come from her.

Was there one person or event that really brought it all out of you?