Hello all

I'm a male submissive, currently unowned and in the closet to the rest of the world with regards to this side of myself. I'm pretty new to this all, at least from the submissive side of things.

I have struggled to find the right partner for online interactions, but recently met someone on another site who seemed like a promising fit. We hit it off well, she offered ownership and protection, and I agreed.

She understood my situation in terms of work, my family, and my existing commitments - at least she said she did after I explained this to her. I was up front and honest about the fact that I could only play at certain times and, depending on my workload, I may not be able to play at all on a given day or keep a schedule if we were to meet.

She consistently ignored my attempts to set boundaries, however, continuing chats after I said I had to leave, assigning immediate tasks that I had to perform.

I told her multiple times that we were going too fast or that I had to focus on work. She replied with messages that made me feel bad for ignoring her and that I was a bad boy.

And I do feel bad. I agreed to be her submissive, but there are some days and times when I simply can't because of my other duties.

I informed her that I wanted to step away from her ownership - better to do this sooner rather than be a continuing disappointment - and that I was sorry. She essentially ignored my messages and said we would talk about it - which we haven't. It may come to the point where I will simply delete my account on the other site, which I don't like.

Any advice on how best to deal with this?