From what I gathered, this is a contentious topic as some find various aspects of it insulting.

I just want to offer my two cents on the matter and see what you think. Maybe it'll help understand, maybe it will make it worse, Idk.

First of all, lets define some terms (or at least how I define / seperate them):

• Feminization: dressing and or acting more feminine / in line with female stereotypes
• Sissification: the eradication of masculinity through feminization
• Humiliation: something designed to draw attention to something the receiver would rather hide
• Degradation: something designed to make the receiver feel they are unworthy of something

I might be alone in this (hence this quest for feedback), since my definition and how I engage with this kink don't involve any mentions of cuckolding, bbc's or degradation.

I've seen a lot of people take issue with the idea, because in their mind it equates femininity with something someone needs to be humiliated or shamed for. At least for me, there's a difference between a lack of masculinity and femininity.

I can see why refering to a caged dick as a clit or clitty isn't the most flattering thing, but I hope you can understand a bit more why I don't view it as derogatory for the female sex, but merely as the most emasculating for mine.

As an analogy, I think sissification is for masculinity what the "CEO - secretly sub" stereotype is for power.

I hope I didn't rustle too many feathers and that maybe we can learn something from talking about this.

Can you see where I'm coming from? Do you have better definitions or take issue with mine?

Let me know. 🍀

Edit: Had to update my definition of humiliation, by being reminded of what I actually wanted to express. Here is the old version for full transparency: Humiliation: something designed to make the receiver feel shame