Lately there seems to be an influx of Dommes trying to bash other Dommes for not being "good enough" and focusing only on their pleasure. And subs complaining that there are no "real Dommes". Like wtf?

This is very strange to me since, ideally, we should be supporting each other instead of trying to be like "Hey look at me I'm doing this better than yall". I understand there are many of those who scam people or use them as kink dispensers but it has nothing to do with being a good Domme or a good sub. The only "fake" doms and subs are the ones who violate consent and refuse to communicate. And yes, there are shitty people that hide behind the BDSM umbrella and use it an excuse to use and abuse people. But I'm not talking about that, I'm talking about a weird division amongst Dommes, amongst Dommes and subs, this us vs them mentality.

It does not have to a competition who has it worse but rather we can come together and support each other. I might be a little naive but just my 2 cents.