Hi all! I'm a bisexual dom in an ENM relationship with my boyfriend. I'm attracted to people of all genders and presentations, but I have a persistent issue with domming women and fem-presenting people.

I've always found it easier to dom men and masc-presenting people. Maybe it's a sort of rebellion against social expectations, but it just comes naturally to me.

When it comes to fems though, I have this latent empathy that makes it difficult to get into my power trippy, selfish dom space. I don't know if it's because my sexual experiences with women have been overall more vulnerable and tender, or because I have some subconscious concept of "sisterhood"—but I'd love to get over this so I can actually play with fem subs in a fulfilling way for both of us.

TL;DR - Seeking advice for getting out of my head to dominate fem-presenting people just as intensely as I dominate masc-presenting people.