As far as I know, it's when two people (usually a couple) who are in a (romantic & sexual) relationship pretend to be strangers who met somewhere and then perform a scenario where they cheat on their "*partners*" with each other. WITH CONSENT. Both parties know.

Another is when one partner engages in the D/s dynamic with a different person WITH CONSENT from their real partner.

Swingers. Swinging. WITH CONSENT.

The list goes on, really.

When the submissive who approaches me is partnered, for as long as THERE IS CONSENT with their partner, I have no problems with engaging in a dynamic with them.

However, I don't know how to feel about [this](https://prnt.sc/chBTzzhKnJ5w). I know I'm still a bit of a novice when it comes to the scene and I'm sure I have more to learn and unlearn. But something about this specifically does not sit right with me. I draw the line when it comes to infidelity and the other partner has to suffer. How normalized is this in the community?