It seems like finding a consistent, loyal sub has been such a difficult task. It seems impossible to obtain.

I thought having a casual relationship based of sexual fantasy would be easier than trying to find a romantic relationship these days… but I am dead wrong. It’s equally difficult.

It seems like commitment in a sexual and dating space seems to be something that generally isn’t desired at all right now. We’re in the age of options and never settling. Which is good in some sense, BUT it’s almost as if we’re all fucking each other over literally and figuratively. It’s a hard pill I’ve been trying to swallow in both my personal dating life and kink life.

I’m growing tired of searching and I’m not sure how much more time I want to invest in my kink life if I continuously come across such fickle individuals.

What can I do differently in terms of looking for a sub? How can I be taken more seriously as a domme? What can I do to attract better potentials?