Hello everyone! I wanted to ask (Dommes and subs) what the first month may look like when getting to know each other via online dynamics. The reason I ask is that I prefer to keep my distance IRL as I have a busy life so it wouldn't benefit me to meet in person or worry about money at the end of the day.

What do you like to do with an online dynamic?

What helps you achieve Domme/sub headspace when you are unable to meet in person?

How would tasks work (if you can provide examples that make you feel good) and what's your favorite task?

Are there subs around here that are more service-oriented rather than driven by their own sexual needs being fulfilled? Not sure if there is a better way to phrase it but it would be incredibly helpful to find a sub who can help me with research and video editing for youtube / Domme ASMR Roleplay. 💕

I've heard of the Obedience app, but I haven't a clue where to start or what might make subs happy about the tasks/rewards/punishments setup.

I would also love to learn more about keyholding if any subs would be open to explaining how much that means to them.

I am a gentle Domme by nature, but not exactly a Mommy Domme. I love the idea of nurturing my subs and making them feel good about themselves as individuals, so I think it will be something I can provide in an online LDR for sure!

Thank you for reading! I will appreciate any tips/advice!

• Regina