So, I have wanted an FLR and Femdom sexlife with my wife for a while but have been too afraid to bring it up. For context I have severe ED so our sexlife consists of me using my tongue, fingers and toys to please her. Honestly the ED is the best thing to happen to our sex life. I focus all of my attention on her pleasure and make sure she is completely satisfied. After she is done I jerk off while she strokes my chest and face. But, last month she started squeezing my throat while I jerked off. Gentle at first but increasing pressure as I get close to climax. I wanted to bring it up outside the bedroom but feared it was a fluke and I was misreading her intentions. Then last week she pinched my nipples and choked me. And on Saturday she was pressing on my perineum and I had my chin down and she told me she can't get to my throat so if I want her hand there I better raise my chin. She alternated between choking me and pinching my nipples and actually was being verbal, which she has never done before. I asked her to squeeze harder and make me hers and she pulled my face to hers and said, you already belong to me. Even made me ask permission to cum. So yesterday I got the nerve to send her an email coming clean about my feelings and how I would very much like to explore this further with her. She said yes but she just got a job offer from a new company and that is taking up her time right now but wants to discuss things this weekend. I have found some articles on Femdom and flr for us to look over and wanted to do a bdsm checklist but all the checklists I have found are full if extreme things that will more than likely turn her off. So I'm going to list my limits and interests here in hopes I can get some advice on other activities that may be fun for two novices starting thus journey

My kink list Hard limits- Pegging, feminization, sissification, sucking a dildo, cbt, watersports, degradation, forced bi play Likes- face slapping, pussy and ass worship, servitude, chastity, orgasm control, teasing, restraints, choking, nipple play, curious about light anal and prostate play, and possibly wearing her panties while she plays with me