What’s the difference between a pseudo-sub and someone who doesn’t realize that what they desire is to be a “power bottom:” A dominant with a “service top” submissive?

Or in general, how often do people confuse their intrigue with being a submissive as a result of their trauma (anxious-avoidant attachment) negatively impacting their ability to trust & submit, or their inability to recognize themselves as a bottom rather than a submissive?

Coming from a girl (F21) who does not know wether she is a “power bottom” - a bottom in general with or without the power exchange - or a submissive with trauma wounding that makes it difficult to submit. How have you discovered within yourself that you find contentment with submission or domination, and as a dominant are you mainly the bottom as well within your preferred dynamic? Why or why not?