Hello! Im new to the whole dating scene however I’m 99% sure I’m into GFD and i am looking for pointers, tips, and warnings as well as answers from you beautiful people!

Q1. I am a 21yr old male that is a virgin and for some reason i am afraid of loosing it to someone i do not actually love I.E one night stands or a relationship that cannot bloom for one reason or another, is this an issue i can try to avoid or is it recommended i get some experience first?

Q2. The whole reason i decided to ask you all about this stuff is i haven’t had any luck finding anyone let alone someone who is into being a dom, i live in a super conservative area with my parents and light methods are not working well like tinder bumble etc etc. where would you recommend i look for someone with common interests? Im not a go to a bar alone type of person but i am willing to try!

Concern1. Ive got mental issues that stop me from processing flirting and jokes correctly especially over texts, would this be a huge hinderance in my pursuit? And if not any tips on how to improve recognition?

C2 im overweight yet i am working hard to overcome my indulgences and focus on healthy versions and exercise, ive always thought that because i look fat most people just want to be friends and not in an actual relationship. Is being overweight an issue with finding someone or is it just the stigma from where i live that has messed with my head.

Alright i hope ive made the questions ad concerns clear enough if not i can elaborate or add onto!