So I've been talking with men irl but I feel all of them try to be the typical "manly man" with me, I give some hints that I'm dominant during the conversation but I don't know how are the signs that show that he is a sub, I understand that they can feel insecure about telling this private thing to a girl they don't know yet, but there must be some hints to know if he is or not into that? I don't know what hints I'm looking for, how a sub man lets know he is a sub. Also, I don't want to ask directly, it's real life, I'm not like "Hi, are you submissive? Want to be my good boy?" seems crazy and weird to me. I know what I want, and I don't want to spend so much time knowing someone for years or months, who in the end is not into it. I want to invest time and all my love into the right person. How can I read the signs? There are signs? How can I ask? Lol I don't know a f* Please help me good people of Reddit.