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How to ask a sub if they’re available for a date
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Especially with new relationships, I struggle with what to say when I want to see them. I don’t like being direct or demanding like “Be here at 4pm” … if they’re busy and they say no it makes the rejection sting. Today I want to say “Can I have you today” but I’ve been told before that saying “are you available” “do you want to” gives the sub the power and can weaken the dynamic.

“I want you today” is direct… and let’s them pick the time?

What phrases or wordings do you like to use? Is there a way to ask that gets a positive result, so they can tell me when they’re free without me asking and sounding desperate and needy

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