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Ladies, I need help/some explanations - please
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Okay, I need help figuring this out. Ladies, please, as a guy I can't figure this out myself.

I started talking to a woman that I messaged about her personal ad in OnlineAffairs (like some ladies of this community advised to me previously), and - surprise - a day later she started responding.
At first the dialogue was quite casual, like normal people getting to know each other - and I was like "wow, she talks like an actual human being, not a scam and not a catfish, did I just get lucky with finding someone able to hold a decent conversation?".
Then she asked about my country (marked as red point 1 in the picture) - I mentioned it was Ukraine, and asked where she was from. She said she was from UK, and then reasked if I was in Ukraine (point 2) - I confirmed I was indeed. Then she asked if I was from Ukraine (point 3), and I confirmed I was from and in Ukraine - and that's it. After that she ghosted and never wrote anything else. Later this evening I discovered she deleted all her messages, so that should explain why it's a "monologue", not a dialogue in the screenshot.

So I need help or advice figuring this out. Ladies - what do you feel about Ukraine, considering the global news? And what could you possibly feel if you were talking to a guy who could potentially become your online partner/sub and you found out he was from Ukraine? Is this some red flag for many of you? Was there something I've said in the dialogue?

Any feedback would be totally appreciated, as I'm frankly puzzled with what went wrong here. Please help 🙏

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