Hi everybody,

Recently and completely spontaneously I began a Domme Heavy (For me) dynamic with another Switch and a few weeks later I ended up the proud new owner of my very own sub.

Most of the time when I top their is no intrinsic sexual thrill necessarily, it just feels good to be the cause of someone's pleasure, sexual or otherwise. Also I know how therapeutic a good domming could be and I love that I'm able to give it to folks who I think are good people.

Other times however it has been mad arousing to domme someone though, ngl and I have def got something sexual out of it. Sometimes a more service top-y feeling will evolve into dommey feeling in the middle of a session.

My question: Is there a term for folks who feel in between both categories and moreover would you say being a domme vs service topping is possibly on a spectrum similar to asexuality or homosexuality and heterosexuality?