I'm a Female dom (27) married to a male sub (27). Just started the world of bdsm. I'm getting the hang of it so hard haven't been doing it long. But I need help with tips, tricks, commands to say, things to do. I feel like when we're in the bedroom I run out of things in the moment and I just go blank and I repeat things. We have names and I command him to do things through out the day. IV used toys, whips, handcuffs, blindfold, feathers, cage. Just anything you can really give me to help with the learning process. Everything I read is just the same stuff on google which is like " have a safe word", call him names. That's great in all but I wanna know some sexy commands. One thing tho.. no anal stuff suggestions.

He does not like leashes, anal stuff, and plugs.