So I was in a bit of a strange case with my last gf. I dont know if this would be a precursor to femdom and hence Im looking for an outside evaluation. Obviously its from my own POV so its going to be biased.

We where together for about a year and while nothing was stated officially, the entire relationship somewhat revolved around pleasing her to the point where since she didnt like sex with condoms I obliged and always brought her to orgasm without me ever cumming with her during our whole relationship.

The social life was similar where I usually far more enjoyed pleasing her than do something of my own interrest.

Yet mentally she was totally vanilla. I tried to test the waters by metioning things like pegging and chastity but it had quite adverse reactions.

Does this still qualify as a vanilla relationship where I just was behaving like a fool or is that already somewhere on the femdom spectrum?

The relationship ended due to entering into panic since I wasnt used to relationships going well and then ended up running to the other side of the globe, which I quite regret.