Hey everyone! I am 30 M. As someone who hasn't been in a real life FLR yet, I am wondering what are the sort of things that caught you off guard in your first ever FLR? The things that made you think or doubt or question the practicality of implementing a proper FLR. It's in my very nature to find pleasure in service. The concept of Service sub is the closest to my beliefs. I figured the best way to direct my energy and feel content would be to get in a full fledged FLR in real life. It's also something I've been craving since long.
At the same time, apart from finding the courage to let myself be vulnerable and bare my soul in a safe space, I am concerned if I am overlooking some hard truths eventhough I am sure FLR is what I want at heart and my heart has made up the decision already.

Looking for some helpful insight from the experienced kinksters(subs and Dommes) before I take the final leap.
Thank you!