Is anyone else frustrated and annoyed at the fact that so many men come to FemmDomme just to get their rocks off? They whine and tell you they want this, that, xyz but with no understanding of how D/s dynamics work.

They expect to keep taking without giving. I'm entirely sick of a community entirely based around females on this one corner of the Internet being twisted into this give, give, give to men who are very dependent, unreliable, and also incredibly stunted in growth.

I don't care if you want cuddles, or if you want taken care of. I don't care if you want nothing more than to be pegged. I don't care because this community is not for what YOU want. This is about FEMMEDOMME. FEMALE DOMINANTS. FEMALE-PRESENTING DOMMES.

This is not a place for you to come to and just take from without giving any helpful or meaningful advice or conversation or discussions. This is not a place for a man to tell US what THEY want or need.

Yes, a dynamic can have all the beautiful moments and can indulge in many things like taking care of their submissive good boys, but YOU DO NOT GET TO DICTATE THAT. Women are NOT HERE to be your kink dispenser, your therapist, or your dependent mother for crying out loud.

Nobody in a healthy FLR or FemmeDomme dynamic would want a dependent, unreliable, and selfish submissive. That's at best called topping from the bottom, at worst called manipulating and using others (women) as sex objects and kink dispensers.

There are PLENTY of places on the Internet for your porn addictions or your need for external validation. This is a place for women to feel like they can indulge in the sex THEY WANT, HOW they want, WHEN they want, so on and so forth. Because there are seldom places for women on the Internet who don't end up being shamed, guilted, or manipulated by men into having unfulfilling, undesired, or one-sided sex. Stop making this community about men. Stop making it about you, and learn to either be a meaningful and engaging participant in this community, or go live out your one-sided fantasies somewhere else.