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Anyone else finding it hard to meet dommes? #NYC
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LuffyStrikes22 is in New York City
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I'm new to all this and I was wondering where New Yorkers go to find D/s relationships. I checked FetLife but there aren't many public events and I definitely don't want to put it on my tinder profile.

I also searched through Reddit but I don't know how to talk to a Dom without getting ghosted every time. Do I talk about kinks or vanilla interests first without it being weird? Sometimes a Dom will slide into my DMs and every attempt at getting to know them gets ignored. It's even harder when they have blank profiles - like what else am I supposed to say if there's no history?

Any sort of advice is very appreciated!

Edit: Thank you everyone! I was being too narrow with my search. I will keep on looking and good luck to you all.

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