I’ve noticed that many subs will be more interested in whether a domme matches their kinks than whether there is mutual attraction. I’m speaking more for those who partake in scene and casual d/s relationships rather than monogamous romantic relationships.

I’m curious how this works? Are there any subs here who worship a domme they’re not physically attracted to? Is your attraction to their dominance more important? If there is a big age difference, how does that play in? For example subs in their 20s with dommes in their 50s or subs who have visited a pro domme.

In addition, how are you able to fulfill your duties of physical worship and verbal worship when you lack the factor of physical attraction?

I would be curious to have some insight from anyone who has experienced this type of dynamic.