Hi,
I keep running to this problem:
Sub man thinking that there are 1000 subs for every Dominant woman so they must "stand out" to find D.
This leads them not to share their limits / set boundaries as they are afraid that D will find someone else.
In a unfair situation like this, how can anyone ensure consent?
I know, it's not my fault if they lie to me, but still this worries me.
Most of them are looking for a one time experience, or even paid domme session. I don't do those either.
But I have found really nice, sweet, smart subs from dating sites. It takes some filtering for sure, but usually it's quite easy to spot those who only want to use me as a fetish provider
You live and you learn, I'm happy you realize it now
I understand that.
I can't really comment on findomming since I don't do it I'm not an expert.
I agree, it's not black and white like that.
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yea, I'm very apprachable and I actually don't do anything dominant until everything is discussed and both want to move forward