Me (m27) and my wife (f29) will have been together 10 years this October and it's been an amazing relationship with lots of growth and learning moments. I was a Virgin when we got together so she was my first everything and we've learned alot about each other over the last decade. Growing up I was the quiet kid and avoided all conflict so I pretty much just existed without being noticed and she helped me find my voice and break out of my shell. Even though I'm not as socially reserved anymore I acknowledge I'm a very submissive person at my core. We both were just teenagers when we met with no kink experience but we can talk about anything and over the years that submissive side of me came out more and more in the bedroom. I hid my true desires for the first few years but confessed to her I liked the idea of BDSM and femdom where she took control. She has a strong personality and is a true caregiver so being a dom came easy to her and she began to like it alot and so did I. We started out with spanking and some anal play with fingers and it's progressed since those first awkward sessions with her becoming a commanding dom in the bedroom. We've explored and regularly have pegging, anal training, spanking, CBT, and edging sessions and it's all I ever wanted. Now we've decided start a new journey with chastity and im nervous because this places a level of control in her hands that seems absolute because the day the cage gets here she's putting it on me and she said for our test run it will stay on unless she's in the mood. We have an active sex life of 2-4 times per week but im used to being able to take care of myself when I please but that's not happening once that cage arrives and she's said she's not unlocking me to for solo play. She got a nice chain to always have the key to my lock on her and the spare will be hidden and only she knows where it will be. It's scheduled for delivery in two days and I feel myself getting anxious and also a litte excited about it and I can't decide if this is for me but once it's on we agreed to 30 days of her deciding when and how long im allowed out of it and she's been talking about how much she likes the idea of having that power....