Welcome to our kinky little corner of Reddit, focused around the fun and enjoyment there can be in a girl not getting to (or being allowed to) reach orgasm.

We do have a few rules, for the most part they could be expressed very simply as "Don't be a dick", but since people do need things spelt out, there's a link just below this paragraph. PLEASE at least read over them before contributing so I don't have to ban you. It's tedious and wastes your time and mine.

• https://www.reddit.com/r/Femaleorgasmdenial/about/rules/

There's a great piece posted on Edging.Space which I'll link here, which gives a nifty introduction to the idea if you're thinking "Huh, why would someone want to try that?". It's framed around the idea of a letter that a lady could give her partner to ask to be denied, but trust me, you'll get the idea as you read!

• https://edging.space/the-greatest-valentines-gift/
  

Denial can take many forms; it can be self imposed, it can be done with a partner, it could be done by posting here and having other posters 'keeping her honest' - all are valid, all can be fun, all are encouraged here.

It can be over any length of time - from as little as a few hours, to the extremes of over a year. Most will find they get plenty out of several days or a few weeks, but again, any duration is valid if it's being felt and enjoyed. Note that denial is an incredibly personal experience, and the level of desperation one girl feels after two days may be the same as what another feels after two weeks, or two months. So basically, enjoy what you read about others doing, but never try to hold them up as a measure for you or your partner to meet - focus on your own experience and enjoy it.

We aim to be an inclusive space, which means that trans folks have as much right to be here as cis folk. And yes, that might mean a trans man (who still has female genitals, which folk here tend to have a lot of ideas for teasing and denying), or a trans woman (who identifies with the other ladies here). If that's not your thing, that's fine, nobody is making you read or interact with their posts. If you feel the need to be a dick, I may feel the need to ban you. Again, please play nice.

If you are posting, one request I'd make is to please try and ensure there's some content there. I can appreciate a picture of a wet, denied pussy as much as the next person (and the next person is a raging pervert ;) ), but it's always a lot more interesting, and can get more interesting discussion going, if you explain a little of your story too. We're a much more engaging subreddit when we can exchange stories and ideas and get a bit of a feel for the person behind the images or words.

And I think I've typed enough. It's a wonderful kink to explore and I hope you have a ton of fun with it. Be excellent to one another.